Sermon: “A Family Who Finds Refuge”
Sermon Series – The Church: A Family of Faith
LSB Series A; The Fourth Sunday in Lent
Sunday, March 19, 2023
Psalmody: Psalm 142
Grace, mercy, and peace be to you from God our Father and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen.
We are now in the third Sunday of our sermon series on the selected Psalms under the title of “The Church: A Family of Faith.” As we continue to read, learn, mark, and inwardly digest His Word, it remains our goal that we would see that God has brought us together as a family of believers who rejoice in being children of the Heavenly Father, while we are also brothers and sisters in Christ. This aspect of our being a family of faith means that what God has done for His Church through Christ’s death and resurrection, changes everything about our lives, both here in the Divine Service and throughout all of our lives.
Today’s theme which flows from our overall theme comes from Psalm 142, and it is titled: “A Family who Finds Refuge.”
Do you ever feel like God is silent to your cries for mercy?
Do you ever feel overwhelmed, weary, and exhausted?
Do you ever feel like everyone is against you?
Do you ever feel like no one notices that you are struggling and suffering?
Do you ever feel like there is no hope?
Do you ever feel like no one cares about you?
This is the way the Psalmist felt.
David had been on the run. He had once been accepted as company of King Saul after David had killed Goliath. When Saul was upset, David would play the harp for him to bring him peace. But fits of rage and jealousy ended all of that. Saul despised David’s popularity…so much so that all he wanted was for David to be dead…and so, David fled.
During Saul’s pursuit, he made his way into a cave. Little did he know, David and his men were in that same cave. The opportunity for David to end the life of his pursuer was before him. But, in an act of integrity, he spared Saul’s life. Without Saul’s knowing, David cut a corner off of Saul’s robe. Once Saul exited the cave, David caught up with Saul.
As the two came together, one might guess that the tension could have been cut with a knife. David then revealed the corner of Saul’s robe to show that he had spared the king’s life. And though there was a truce at that time, it was not long and Saul’s jealous quest to claim David’s life continued.
Do you ever feel like God is silent to your cries for mercy?
Do you ever feel overwhelmed, weary, and exhausted?
Do you ever feel like everyone is against you?
Do you ever feel like no one notices that you are struggling and suffering?
Do you ever feel like there is no hope?
Do you ever feel like no one cares about you?
This is the way the Psalmist felt. Perhaps it is how you feel as well.
God’s Word has a way of validating the very emotions that we experience in our lives. No doubt every one of us could relate to those questions just asked and respond with a “Yes, I have felt that way before.” And perhaps, that is the way that you feel now as you come here into the House of the Lord.
As a Family of Faith, we can’t somehow put up the façade with each other that we have it all together. Truth be told, if that is the case, then we are more than likely living a lie.
Why do we do that? Why do we choose to bury our emotions down deep? What are we trying to accomplish?
Well, emotions are a frightening thing. If we let someone see our true emotions, we expose ourselves in a way that makes us most uncomfortable. In fact, truth be told, we are likely terrified to reveal our true emotions on multiple matters in life.
What would happen if others saw just how angry I truly am?
What would happen if others saw just how hurt I feel?
What would happen if others saw tears streak down my cheeks?
What would happen?
That unknown is what terrifies us.
Relationships are far too often built up on the false pretense that we have it all together. And relationships often fail to give the permission to “not” have it all together.
We often struggle to find a truly safe place that allows us to be ourselves without running the risk that the relationship will be changed…or even worse, ruined altogether.
Just think about it, how many of us live in fear of how others may respond to our genuine emotional responses? And therefore, when we are around that person or those persons, we feel as though we have to walk on eggshells so that we don’t lose it and therefore damage our reputation, lose our job, destroy the relationship, or otherwise.
Where is the safe place for us to truly allow ourselves to be exposed emotionally in a way that won’t be painful or lead to lasting harm?
Where do we find refuge?
In our Psalm for today, David says, “I cry to you, O Lord; I say, “You are my refuge, my portion in the land of the living.””
But what is a refuge? By definition, a refuge is “a condition of being safe or sheltered from pursuit, danger, or trouble.”
So, where is that place that you feel completely and totally safe? Where is that place that you can lay it all out there without putting up any defenses at all, and no matter what, you will not be thought of differently or treated differently in any way?
For David, his refuge was God. His safe place to be able to lay it all out there in total trust was God. For He was the One who attended to David’s cry no matter how low he got. He was the One who protected him no matter how fierce the attack became. He was the One who brought him out of the physical, emotional, and spiritual prisons he found himself locked up in. He was the One. Only God was worthy of His thanks and praise. Only God surrounded Him with righteousness. Only God dealt bountifully with Him. Only God.
What about for you? Is God where you find refuge?
In today’s world, we have a tendency not to seek refuge. We seek to escape. We turn to Netflix, Hulu, and Amazon Prime. We turn to SnapChat, Twitter, and Facebook. We turn to addictions, gambling, alcohol, drugs, and pornography. We turn to anything that will make us feel numb.
The ironic thing is that in that numbness of a wave of watching or binging, all we crave is to “feel” again. Something, anything. But once we feel something that we don’t like, well, then it is back to numbing ourselves again. It is a vicious cycle.
It is a vicious cycle of Satan as he tries to drive us further and further away from God. Did you ever notice that in the numbing of your emotions, you drift further away from the holy things of God…God’s Word, His Sacraments, being in His House…they all seem useless, pointless?
It is what is known as acedia. It is when we become “numb” to the holy things of God, and we are all susceptible to it. After all, the devil is out to get us all. And if he can get us to seek refuge in things that cause us to drift away from where God locates Himself, then in his mind, he has won.
But that is in his mind. Remember…always remember…the devil is a defeated enemy. He is a loser. Yes, his assaults are endless. Yes, his temptations are constant. But, that does not mean that you are without hope.
David encapsulates this reality when he thinks he is literally imprisoned as he is constantly running for his life. But instead of remaining in despair, he returns to what is true. He returns to his God and finds that yes, once again, it is true, his God is a refuge. And not only is He a refuge, He has dealt bountifully with David.
He has dealt bountifully with you also. He is a refuge for you also. You may come here in doubt and despair, but you do not need to stay there. Instead, come here into His house with thanksgiving.
He knows you are weary and exhausted. He knows you are constantly under attack. He knows that you are struggling and suffering. He knows you often feel like there is no hope. He knows that you often feel like no one cares.
But know this. Your God knows, and your God cares. He hears your cries for mercy, and He answers them. Not with a text, email, or message on snapchat. No, He doesn’t remain distant, and He doesn’t expect you follow a list of steps to get right with Him. Your God gets real, and He gets right up into your lives. And He does so with His own flesh and blood. He knows that while in this life you will have trouble, but take heart, He has overcome the world.
Those are not mere platitudes that bring momentary or even false hope. Those are facts that are a firm foundation for you to stand upon and rely upon. And no matter how angry you get at Him, no matter how hurt you may feel, no matter the tears that stream down your cheeks…no matter what, there is nothing that will separate you from His love. Nothing. So, there is no need to hold back your emotions, no need to hold back anything. He can take anything you’ve got…all of it and more.
And the evidence of that reality is there before you…the cross. That is where He let out His cry for mercy to His Father and got no reply. That is where He felt overwhelmed, weary, and exhausted with nails in His hands and feet. That is where everyone truly was against Him. That is where everything did look hopeless. That is where no one did care about Him.
He gets it. He knows it. He lived it. And He did it all for you. To suffer as you suffer. And to suffer in Your place. So that in a world where there just seems like there is never a safe place to go, you always have a God that you can turn to who understands. You always have a God who loves you. And you always have a God who will deal bountifully with you.
As a family of faith, this is where it’s at…all for you. This is where no matter what you may be going through, you may behold once again, that you have a God who is for you. And nothing at all will ever change that. For you belong to Him, and in any and every circumstance, you may find refuge in Him.
In Jesus’ name. Amen.
The peace of God which surpasses all human understanding guard and keep your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen.